Client Testimonials

My Experience (male perspective)

“I  was first  exposed to pornography at a young age and began watching it  frequently  in my mid to late teens. It was something that I kept mostly  secret,  except to friends who were involved in their own forms of  sexual exploitation and seemed to normalize the behavior. After  sometime, my  pornography watching escalated into visiting massage  parlors and prostitutes / escorts to indulge in sexual desires and  fantasies; this I  kept hidden from everyone. Looking back on it, there  was a bit of a  dichotomy that existed. On one hand, I thought this  wasn’t a problem and  that I could stop these behaviors at any time if I  really wanted to,  but on the other hand I felt hopeless, stuck and  that there was no way  to get out of this.  


Subsequently,   partly spurred by seeing a friend make a change in his life, I decided   that I had to start be completely honest with myself and others whom I   cared form. At this time I knew I needed help and sought out Cheryl.  It  was very challenging to disclose what I was doing to her, because I  had been keeping a secret so well for so many years and felt so much  shame.  However, Cheryl made this process much easier with her warmth,  understanding and compassion.   


Aside  from  this, the person that I opened up to first was the one who I was  hurting  the most, my wife at the time. She made the decision to leave  the  relationship and I made the decision to continue counseling. It was  very  hard to separate from her, but opening up to her and continuing  therapy  was one of the best decisions I’ve made in my life. Sessions  have not  always been easy, and Cheryl has had such great insight as to  when she  needed to challenge me and when she needed to ease back. With  her I have  felt safe, supported, respected and empowered with the  courage to  examine my addictive / compulsive behaviors and change and  grow. I can’t  say enough about her abilities as a Life Coach. 


In conclusion, I no longer watch pornography, visit massage parlors /   prostitutes or indulge in any type of behaviors or compulsions related   to the sexual exploitation of another human being. I’m still triggered   at times, but through therapy and self examination, the triggers have   become MUCH LESS powerful, and I’m able to confidently cope and  navigate  through them. I continue to grow, and work on seeing women as  human  beings who have worth far beyond just gratifying some fantasy or  desire.  I have had to step up and take ownership of my own  psychological and  emotional challenges, instead of projecting them onto  others. Again,  this is not always easy and is an ongoing process, but  even with the  loss of my marriage, I feel so much better being free of  the sexual  behaviors / compulsions that haunted me for so long. And for  this, I’m  so grateful to Cheryl, and to the entire process of recovery  and of  healing!” 



Pornography & Relationships

Grieving

"Cheryl  has a soft voice that is comforting; so when I were to cry she said  it's alright go ahead and let the healing begin of the grieving. While I  talked with Cheryl Wheeler, each week for an hour; I was finally able  to pull myself together with all confidence to hold my head up n truly  appreciate the grieving process. She helped me through all the grieving  stages. With her admirable experience and knowledge and rewarding  talents and the exceptional gifts from God, she made me a whole new  woman with a brighter look at life. Thank you very much Cheryl Wheeler.  With all my coaching sessions, I highly recommend her for anyone. You  can count on her, she will be there for you, not for the paychecks. She  has helped many people n very much so deep down cares for them. Give her  a call n make appointment with her." 


Bereavement - Grief

Incredibly Nonjudgmental

"Cheryl's  patience and compassion know no bounds...I have never met  someone that  is so incredibly nonjudgmental...she will pick you up right  where you  are, and begin to lead you out into the light...no matter  how painful  your situation may be, it isn't in her to add to that  pain...Cheryl is  about empowerment and grace and wisdom...totally  trustworthy..."  

Judgement Free

Business Coaching

" I had a wonderful business coaching session with Cheryl today!  I came away with many ideas and insights. Thank you Cheryl!"  

Career - Entrepreneur

Guide Your Experience

"Cheryl  has an incredibly warm and inviting spirit and meets every encounter  with a smile. Cheryl calls upon her teachings with Pia Melody as well as  other scholars and brings this wealth of knowledge to each coaching  session. She allows you to guide your own experience while lending a  gentle hand to give you the tools you need to be successful. Cheryl is  and will always be considered an extension of our family." 

Guided Experience

If you need to work shit out!

"Cheryl  Wheeler is one of the most compassionate humans I've ever met and  had a  personal experience with!! You can look up her resume and for all   those peeps that seek put professionals with degrees... well she has  it! Yet she has a huge heart and world of knowledge in alternative ways   of thinking as well.


This woman is a great resource!! please consider her if you need to work shit out! she is tremendously helpful! 

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